Humans are social animals by nature, so it’s totally normal that we occasionally need one another’s help from time to time, no?
But what really bothers me is the kind of person that expects your advice to be something like a map to attain Nirvana, a plan explaining to them how to get to Valhalla, and that it is something they have to accept blindly like a religious text and reach Salvation. Why can’t people actually use their brains and mold your suggestions to match their current situation and exploit it for their benefit instead of using it as a strict, rigid, recipe for success?
You also have to do something for your own happiness and not be emotional baggage your friends have to carry, because, constantly lamenting about your life won’t make it better – you’ll just lose time, and saliva, which are among the most important things ever in life as we all know.
You know, spoilt milk, and stuff, right?
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